Brewer - The Last Time I Saw You

 

Gaylord Brewer

 The Last Time I Saw You

waiting in the crowd

at a seafood restaurant by the river,

I in town to visit my folks,

you with toddler squeezing thigh

and an infant on the other hip

I scarcely recognized you,

so aged and tired and wan

before you turned away.

We’d finished with each other

years before—but not so many—

the lusty thirst we couldn’t quench,

the ugliness at the end

and the even-uglier at the very end.

Why I woke today thinking of you

I’ve no idea, a vague, jumbled

recollection without longing

or forgiveness, apology

or complaint. Now, I am sitting

inside a free hour

in a grove of old walnut trees

chewing a single, sticky Medjool date

warmed in the May sun, tossing

the pit to manicured grass.

Another, and lick the fingers clean.

Beautiful day, early still,

all that remains still to come.

In the distance, my wife’s sensible

car in the sensible sun.

Any moment she will emerge

from our building,

don her rakish shades, tool coolly

toward home, her work finished

as mine’s to begin. She will spy me

in the grove’s shadows,

unfolding memories and folding

them again, or not. You are almost

certainly grandmother by now,

probably by several years.

If we were to meet today

you, I’m certain, would need identify

yourself as the sad, smiling girl

adrift by uncaring parents.

And I, I’m sure, would read

the decades of my aging

in your pale green eyes. Luckily

that won’t happen. It makes

no iota of difference in the world,

nothing plus nothing,

whether I wish you well,

recall you fondly or otherwise,

announce your name, or not.

 
 

Gaylord Brewer’s new collection of poetry, his eleventh, is Worship the Pig (Red Hen, 2020). He teaches at Middle Tennessee State University.